Friday, December 11, 2009

Man vs. Woman



Obviously these two 'creatures' are different. In the way of thinking, expressing emotions, talking, interpreting things etc. It can be said that every aspect in these creatures' life are done differently right? But there are things that these creatures do in slightly same way and they are also might have same interests..yet how they involve themselves with it, I think it still different.

Man and woman are very unique as we all know. Man has their own character and perspective towards woman and vice versa. Egoism is a thing which exists in both creatures. I've encountered a situation which shows the egoism in both man and woman vividly..There's a time when this lady had an argument with her man friend. The argument was about a small issue but had been interpreted differently. Usually woman's thought always influenced by emotion while man's thought usually based on rational, so that is when the argument come about. When they were discussing, they explained everything that they think,see n feel but all of them are different. The man think the woman shouldn't act that way and same goes to the woman..Lastly the conversation and discussion ended with no conclusion. But fortunately, the issue ended days later.

So from what happened, I think man and woman should understand each other. As woman, we should understand man's nature and for man, they should understand about woman's nature for we can avoid misunderstanding or whatever bad feelings that will come. A simple example that I can see here is menstruation. Every month women will have this 'special illness'. Anger, sad and anxious are things that women always face while having PMS. Hence, as a man they should understand this and shouldn't take too serious about what happened or been said (that might hurt) by the woman. It is not as easy as we could think but it is worth for our sake.

Things will be better if these creatures understand each other...

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Long or Short distance relationship?

Hmm..which one is the best? long or short distance relationship? Everything has its own pros and cons, so does this matter. What is the special thing hidden behind those condition? Have you
heard people say 'jauh bau wangi,dekat bau t***?' Those who believe in this think that when we are in a long distance relationship, we will only see the good things about our partner..because we don't spend much time together besides we cannot really 'see' them. So we don't know their condition thoroughly. That's why we will 'smell' the good 'scent' only hehe. But then when we are close, we always have time together, we can see the true color of our partner (not 100% but most of it). And that is the reason why we will 'smell' the not so good side of our partner.

I personally think that this condition might be true but it is bias in some ways. People who agree to this maybe in a state where they are frustrated with their relationship or whatsoever. For couples who have a relationship that is blooming like a flower everyday, obviously they won't agree to this.

Me myself think that a relationship requires a lot of commitment, sincerity, honesty and much more. People who are behave like what they have to, no matter how long or near they are, there will be no problem (big one) to deal withAdd Video. As a person, we always want more, and not satisfied with what we have. If we know to how to feel grateful and 'say' it to the Almighty, we will feel O.K in whatever condition we are in.

As myself concerns, I have experienced both conditions and I am glad that both ways give me lessons to learn from and neither conditions strenghten my relationship with my partner. Eventhough some of the things that we went through were hard but they are the things that bring us together. Everything happens for a reason and patience is bitter but the fruit is so
sweet are what we hold to and what we believe in. It might sound cliché yet if we trust and do it the right way, with God's will we will feel the sweetness and the happiness of something. So what do you think bout this?

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Reminiscence

Never thought her life will end in here,
Behind the bars of an empty room,
Dull,gloomy, with blood scent fills the air,
Reminiscence brings her where she starts.
Hoping it was just a dream,
Yet the dream turns into a nightmare,
Bringing her to give her life;
as she took another,
The noblest is the lowest.